ok sOo i like this guy and he knows that i do...and people are telling me that he does..lately we have been talking alot lately over the phone (which is definately a good thing :) )...but the last time we talked he was like kinda talking about this other girl and stuff...like wtf...i think he is just probably seeing how interested i am and stuff..but yeah it kinda bothers me...what should i do
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 5:10 pm: he could be testing you to see if you like him.. or he could be clueless that you're into him and views you as a good friend... and is asking your advice on a girl he likes. the second option is a major killer, i know, i'm sorry. but you can be honored taht he trusts you enough and respects you and is letting you into his life.
if it really bothers you, talk to him about it. say, " i don't know if you know this or not, but i really like you. i don't know if you like me back, or if you like the other girl you mentioned. even if you don't like me,that's cool too because i would still like to remain friends." (assuming you DO want to remain friends, of course.) if you're not quite feeling THAT bold, ask him, "so, what's going on with this girl you were telling me about?" see what he says. hope it all works out for you... [ XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx's advice column | Ask XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx A Question ]
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