ok so i went out with this kid and he brokeup with me, so that same night this other hot kid asked me out nd i said yes, i then dumped him a few days after because i thought i was being easy and then he asked me out again, then i dumped cuz i dont know why! i thought that i could get him back anytime i wanted because he liked me so much-- now hes over me and hes spending alot of time with his other good friend thats a girl but they dont like each other,they say, but i dont know what to do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Hobbies category? Maybe give some free advice about: Music? shortiebebe021 answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 11:22 am: guys won't just wait for you all the time. they are people too after all. i don't really understand the first time you dumped that guy, you thought you were being easy? this is a relationship, there's no easy and hard, relationships are challenging no matter what. there's no such thing as a simple relationship, and if there is one, it isn't really a relationship then. and the second time..you don't even know why you dumped him. i don't think you even liked very much in the first place, he's sort of the boyfriend that you "use" when you can't find another one (that's what it seems like). he's over you because he probably can't seem to find another way to make you actually BE with him...or he was just real hurt by you. you could probably still get him back but this time, make sure you're actually going to have a real relationship with him. if you can't, i'm sorry babes you had your chances but you can't control the guy's mind. just tell the guy you still like him and you are sorry you dumped him those times..good luck! :) [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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