I really like this boy, and he's been my friend since we were in kindergarten, and he's always liked me, and I now like him. BUt now that I like him, my best friend is going out with him. I have no idea what to do..... should I tell him, and hope he likes me, or just sit on the sidelines, and watch them get HOME?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? BehindBluEyes892 answered Sunday May 29 2005, 3:12 pm: hey! well i don't think you should try to break them up or anything like that, but i think you should tell both of them if you really feel comfortable w/ that, and just let them know that you're a bit upset (if you are) but that you don't want to ruin their relationship...and if the guy you like wants to go w/ you instead of the other girl after you tell him that you like him, then thats cool. but try to avoid drama and all that b/c if the guy you like does choose you, then your friend will get mad..soo that always sucks, so try to avoid people getting mad at each other and drama as much as possible. and if you're friend knew that you liked him, and then went out w/ him, that's not what a good friend would do..but if she doesn't know, then thats different. but i think that you should just camly tell both of them that you like him, and see what happens..and like i said, try to avoid the drama and all that! b/c....thats never fun = and when you said, "watch them get home" , i'm guessing that means..have sex? soo, going back to before..if you're friend knows that you like him and they have sex, thats also not a good friend..but i doubt they'll take it that far. at least, i hope not. but don't just "sit on the sidelines" and pretend like nothing's happening, you should definitely talk to them about it! and i'm sure it'll all work out fine =) i hope i helped! good luck =)
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