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Unrequited Love
Ok, so here's the situation. I've never been in a relationship or had any boyfriends and all the bells and whistles that come along with them. I really like this one guy who I know is really wrong for me, and I know he doesn't like me. I know that he can barely stand to be around me, actually. I won't go into detail as to why. The thing is, I can't stop liking him or thinking about him, and I think that also might be effecting my other relationships and keeping things from progressing into dating or anything with guys that might potentially like me. How do I possibly get over the guy whom we shall call Shamrock? How can I possibly allow others in and get to know me for who I am and have them see that I would be a great person to date?
Signed,
Lonely and Waiting
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Do you think one of the reasons you cant stop liking him is because you know he dislikes you so much? It's painful to be rejected like that and maybe now you feel like you need to be liked by him in order for you to be likeable, period.
I would try to move on. Dont see him or speak to him. Put him out of your head as much as possible, it will be tough but every day it will get a little easier. And make yourself more available for other guys! It wont take long before you are swept off your feet by someone else and you will remember Shamrock as the silly one who didnt see a good thing.
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Lonely and Waiting,
If there is no chance that Shamrock is ever going to like you, you need to accept that. Just try to find someone else, and no matter what you do, don't compare him to Shamrock.
Good Luck,
~*Tiffany*~
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if you know that this guy doesn't like you and that he's wrong for you, then you HAVE to get over him! it'll take some time, but be strong and hold on! soon you'll find another guy you like, and when you do, just go for him! start making eye contact with that guy and flurt with him! be confident! hope i helped!
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