Hey!, well here's the deal. My friend has been going out with this guy for about a month now and they have been keeping ita secret. Too bad i didnt know until about a week ago when i admitted to liking him, but not infront of her. Now that i like him, i found out they go out. And then to top it all off, she asked me if i liked him. imediately i responded no, lying. but he and i have gotten kinda close(in my opinion) and i tlod her last night. And i am afraid they may break up making me look like a whore. Then to top it all off, i dont know what to do with my feelings about him.
Hope you can help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BehindBluEyes892 answered Thursday May 26 2005, 6:24 pm: hey! you should talk to your friend, and let her know that you lied b/c you didnt want them to break up. and tell the truth-- tell her that you like him, but you don't want to ruin anything that they have together. and as for your feelings for him, if you don't want to break them up then just stay friends for now! people aren't together FOREVER, so you might have a chance..but like i said, you can still be pretty close friends w/ him...just b/c your friend and him are going out doesnt mean you can't be friends w/ him. and it's not your fault that you didn't know about them going out, but let your friend know that you don't want to ruin anything w/ anyone. and also, i doubt you'll be called a "whore" if something goes wrong..that's not acting like a whore, so its all good! but like i said, just talk w/ your friend about everything and don't lie b/c that'll just make things worse..and you can always stay good friends w/ him! =) i hope i helped! good luck!!!!! =)
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