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Question Posted Thursday May 26 2005, 4:16 pm

hey i used to b a cutter too, i saw your advice on another girls advicenator and i thought it would help if we could talk because... well i have started cuttin again.. pls help... what made u stop?

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roxychick answered Friday May 27 2005, 10:28 pm:
well a lot of things actually. i felt so weird trying to hide the cuts and stuff from friends and i was always upset. i started realizing that cutting myself is just the worst thing to do. it doesnt just effect yourself, it effects the pple you care about too. and i felt like i was being selfish. i am really creative now, i express myself in many other ways. like i said to the other person, drawing or writing poetry. the words i write down cut deeper then any knives or razors. and make such a bigger effect on people. you can draw or sketch or find something that brings out the creative side in you. my b/f got in a huge fight with his father (his parents are divorced nd he lives w/ his dad) nd he went into his room and was slicing at his wrists uncontrollably. he ended up being sent to the hospital bcuz he lost so much blood. thank god he is still alive, but, what would happen if you went and cut yourself. not trying to kill yourself but you cut the vein and bled? who would have to find your dead body? who would have to pick you up and clean up your blood? thats the things you need to ask yourself. my friend said that to me, and i thought about it. what would you feel if you went into a friends or siblings room and found them dead? how would you feel or react? after that i felt so selfish for doing those things to myself. one day your gonna look back on it, and you will feel like the best decision you have made, was to stop hurting yourself. really, there is so much more you can do with your life, dont waste it on being miserable and upset. you only live once, so screw up and just have fun!

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