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breaking a promise
My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now and we are absolutely crazy about eachother! im so in love with him and he feels the same about me! but lately there has beent his girl...**they used to like eachother**...and i told him i dont want him to have anything to do with her and i know i really dont have that say but you just have to know her and the way she treats me and you would understand! so anyways...i called him last nite and his phone was busy! finally i called back and he answered this time and i asked who he was on the phone with and it was her! i cried b/c he couldnt even tell me what they talked about....itslikle they have this outside relationship that i cant be a part of! and he came up to me today and told me he was sorry for making me cry! i told him i forgived him and he promised to not have anything to do with ehr and to not tlak to her again! well i walked into his class b/c im an office aid and he was turned around and they were talking! when he saw me...he told me he was sorry adn he turned around knowing i was pissed! then after that class he came up to me adn said this time he swears not to talk to her and that he was sorry for breaking his promise! then after science i walked up adn he isstanding there talking to her...again! he lied to me! he broke his promise twice! so of course i was mad and he told me it wasnt his fault and i was like excuse me!!!?!???! and he was like well it was but i didnt mean for it to happena dn i was like yeah well it did and s he got mad and he was like i love you and i said i love you too but im still mad at you adn he walked off and almost punched a locker! he is mad but i am hurting and he knows that**i think** but he doesnt do anything about it! what should i do?!? what should i say to him! **if you're gonna tell me to break up with im...dont give me advice b/c that isnt even an option! he told me that he loves me and no one else but if thats the truth then why does he break his promises?!?!?!please help! ill rate high!!
*natalia
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Natalia, dont you think your being a little ignorent? I mean i understand where you dont want to have them talk all the time like on the phone and outside of school. But i mean honestly what are they going to do with eachother at scool. It sounds like you have no trust in this guy what so ever. Can you imagine having this friend that you were close with and stuff and then he gets a girlfriend and your suddenly not aloud to talk to him. It wouldnt feal good. I know first hand. Im sorry if im being to blunt but your letting a silly thing like this get between you and the one you love. and if you really loved this guy like you say you do, you wouldnt be so restrictive and you would give him a little leway on things. If you want to have a real relationship, you have got to put all your jelouse fealings aside. You said you know you two love eacother then what are you worriing about? if he loves you he wont just dump you for this other girl. And if he does not love you and does like this other chick then you have got too let it be. Sorry hun but I just dont think you should have a seriouse relationship with this guy if you cant put aside jelouse catty fealings. much love
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natalia,
do you think he is worth it? i mean, he doesn't seem to like you as much as this "other girl".
as for breaking his prommesis, next time you see him, you should ask him why he lied 2 you, and if he looks to his left than he is lieing! it's true! if he truely loves you, than he should tell you the truth!
-kk
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Oay i know where your coming from with this.. i agree that he probably told you what they've talked about on the phone that one day.. and that maybe he shouldnt talk to her much on the phone or anything, but i mean why does it matter if he talks to her in school your right their whats he goin to do *cheat* i dont think so.. sounds like you can trust this guy.. and if you cant trust him then thats not good to have in your relationship i believe you should trust before love.. but anyways i think you should maybe calm down about that and not trip over it so much cause it doesnt seem like such a big deal but like you said i dont know how this girl is and i guess if you dont like her personality and how she is then maybe i can understand cause im sure you dont want to lose him over her..so i hope i helped much luv dez x0x0 ♥
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