okay .. i am 15 me and this guy were dating for a year and we were soo in love.. we spent everyday everynight together.. we talked about anything and everything.. we were best friends and boyfriend and girlfriend..and then one day we got in a huge fight and i told him i wanted sum space jus to think things out .. but i still loved him to death .. but when i sed i wanted space he got rele upset and took a bunch of pills and he came home like that..when his mom saw him like that she sent him to live with his dad in rhode island for a while ( i live in connecticut ) when he left i was devistated .. he called me and we talked on and off..and then when he comes to visit sumtimes i see him..but now all we do is fight because we are both so fusterated with the situation.. his mom sed he could come home ...but his dad got rele upset and wanted him to stay with him .. so he stayed because he felt bad leaving his dad all alone ..now it is almost summmer and he is going to visit for summer a little bit ..and i wanna see him and i wanna like be with him again so bad.. i miss him soooooo much and he says he misses me but i dont noe wut to do .. i jus want things like they use to be and i want him to move back so we can be together..when he comes this summmer what should i do to get closew ith him again ? so he knows i care and still love him ? please help me <l3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shortiebebe021 answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 7:29 pm: you should mention how much you miss him and want him to move back, even though he may not for his dad's sake. but don't talk about it too much, spend most of the time catching up, talking, hanging out, etc... just being friends. be a bit flirtatious and all, make sure he realizes how much you still care and love him. don't talk about it all the time because you shouldn't be spending your time with him being all dramatic, you should spend it having fun together. that's what he'd want to do. hanging out and basically having fun with him will make you two closer, even if it's just all casual. i mean come on, summer is a time to just chill :). you are only with him for so long. good luck!! [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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