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sex ...too early?
okay hi ...becky..you dont know me..my name is Amber Quilsh and i live in california...but i came across your ask and i felt like i could totaly connect withyou you sound down to eart and sweet and not one of those girls who just cares a bout money nad clothes and all that you know like the perfect little blondy who pleases boys and is a slut! (can you tell i have some anger?) lol sorry...but okay i dont have a great home life but i have this boyfriend that i spend the night with when my dad wont let me in or my moms out drinking its not that bad i get to spend more time with him..and he is great but lately he told me that he wanted to have sex. i said no but that night as we were making out i let him go further than i normally do...first my top was off then my bra then my pants and i let him undress me and finger me but that was it. Well he liked it and he said if we dont have sex he'll break up with me...i know it sounds bad but im horny for him too...i just dont know if it shud go al the way you know im only 14...but i love him and cant lose my best friend & boyfriend....please please help me.....Amber Q....
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Okay well.. i havent even come clothes to having sex, but im gonna do the best i can using my prior knowledge of this kind of situation. :)
Well, you and your boyfriend definitely seem like you have a connection, and its great that he's there for you when your home life isnt the best. If he really cared for you, he wouldnt be in the relationship just because of sex, so you should talk to him about what he meant when he said "ill break up with you if you dont have sex with me." try asking yourself if there is anymore in the relationship than just a physical connection.
On to the next subject, if you want to have sex with him, and you feel that you two share that same thing, and if you feel that you love him, then have sex with him. but remember.. you are only 14 so use protection. If it were me, i would use abstinence lol but thats just me. If you feel pressured to have sex, and you feel uncomfortable in that situation, then dont do it.To me, you seem like you don't want to do it with your boyfriend, so maybe you two should wait a little while, and talk things through..
i hope i helped.. this is tough but i did the best i can! thanks amber!
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