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Wat should I do?
ok, This is kinda hard to explain but I will do my best, We got this new kid at our school and he is hot and he lives right by me his name is chris. And I went outside one day when he was out there to walk to my friends house. Then he came up to me and started flirting and tackling me. He was with one of his frinds witch was one of my frinds so I guess chris went and told our friend that he liked me and then he asked me out and I said yes. I dont no if I should of tho cuz we didn't really no each other. But everybody at my school liked him. And after theyfigured out that we was dating a lot of them starting flirting with him and tried to break us up,and it worked! The farthest we got was tomaking out. And a lot of rumors was going around our school about us so we just gave up oneach other. I really love him and still like him but I dont no wat to do. Every single one of my friends like him... Please help me!!!!!
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Well, I would normally tell you to ask him out, but whats stopping me is when you said all of these girls broke you both up, the rumors. Chris sounds like the school crush, which is a bad thing because you've got to deal with the rumors and the hectic school gossip and jealousy. But, it was so bad before, you both just gave up. So, maybe you need to ask him to give you both another chance and sit down, and discuss how you think you can fight off the rumors without just giving up. A good way of fighting rumors would be to react like you've never heard of something so stupid. Like, heres an example:
A Strange Girl in the hall: Hey, someone told me Chris is cheating on you with that girl.
You: Really? Thats what the school made up this week? Man, how pathetic.
And then just laugh and walk away. If you8 repeat this to everyone who comes up and cares to tell you the rumor, they'll get a clue that you don't seem to care, and yes, you probably really do care, but don't show them that, or those rumors will keep going. If you and Chris show the school that you could care less about what everyone says, those pitiful jealous girls will get off of your case.
-TheTeenGirl
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