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Hey, I'm 12 and im a girl :-) so anyways I have a huge problem and I have no clue what to do!! Its a guy...I love him but I don't know if I want to be more than best friends.He is literally my best friend. Everytime we talk on the computer and he has to go he always says that he loves me..but not I wanna be more love, Just bff love. I'm so confused!! He's got a g/f that he absolutly loves and we've gone out before but it ended nasty. sorry this was so long..but PLEASE HELP!!! thanks =o)xo
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Hey, the longer the better. More detail. =)
You've gotta decide what you want before you do anything.
I know you're confused, but I think what you should do is maybe freewrite a little. Write for like ten minutes and focus on that subject. Think about what you want - do you want him, or do you want to be friends?
You say you've gone out before, right, but it didn't work? Why didn't it work? Figure that out - if there's a chance it could happen again, I would just stay friends.
For now, stay friends. He has a girlfriend - you don't want to come between those two. But you should decide what you really want, and then talk to him. Let him know he doesn't have to do anything about it, and that you wanted him to know what you were thinking, since you're so close.
I hope this helps! If not, let me know and I'll see what else I can do. I'm always willing to try harder.
-Siren =)
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