Hey..I'm 15 years old.. and for the past 2 years me n this guy have been really close and we've been doing stuff.. we went out for about 9 months and then broke up and went out in the summer again.. n he's been telling me he loves me so much like more than a best friend and that I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him.. but he won't go back out with me..so how can he love me so much but not want to be with me like that? If he loved me that much there wouldn't be anything from stopping him from going out with me right? But if he met some girl he really like he would give her a chance...just not me... and sometimes I think he's using me or playing games... what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shortiebebe021 answered Friday May 20 2005, 4:35 pm: well there might be another reason...maybe he just doesn't want to end up going out again and again with you, even if he likes you. or he wants to date other girls or something. i don't know, the mind of a guy is very complicated *sigh*. i don't think he's using you really but on the other hand, i don't even know him. just ask him why he won't ask you out when he says he loves you so much. and why he'll date any other girl except you. or if you want to be silent, keep on hanging out and flirting, give him signs saying "I LOVE YOU!!!". does he even know that you like him back? maybe he's not asking you out because he's afraid of rejection. and i know this might sound like a stupid question but do you even like him? you never said you did but i'll just take it that you do because you're worried about him using you, but sometimes girls don't like a guy anymore but just wonder why he isn't asking them out, even if they're just going to say no anyway. okay sorry about that..anyways good luck!! :) [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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