ok so i really like this guy and hes like my best friend but the thing is he already has a girlfriend! he knows i like him and he said that he likes me too but he likes his girlfriend more! we flirt all the time and talk and stuff but he always ends up saying something about how he and his girlfriend are perfect together and how he hopes they will last a long time that breaks my heart and makes me feel like ####! i dont understand why he does this...should i say something to him or just let it be?? what should i do??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sweetpmb9008 answered Friday May 13 2005, 7:30 pm: Hm thats a hard question.. Well clearly if he has feelings for his girlfriend and you, means hes not to dovoted to just one. Which might end up leading to problems if you do go out down the road. He's your best friend you say, well then i wouldnt urge him to leave his GF, becuase hey friends dont just go and do that. If he thinks that you 2 should go out, he would leave his gf and go to you. Now when you are togehter and he brings up how hes loves his girlfriend so much.. say something about it, be like.. "If you love your girlfriend so much, then why do you say you have feelings for me?" let him be the one to explain his feelings, and dont you try and analize them yourself. I wish you the best of luck tho! [ Sweetpmb9008's advice column | Ask Sweetpmb9008 A Question ]
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