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why am i shy?
hey, im 14 yearold female freshman.. so heres the thing.. theres this one guy ive liked since xmas.. like back then it wasnt big enough to do anything about it and hes had 2 gfs since then and ive been with one other guy. but yah im a really outgoing and loud person and all like everyone describes me as loud and fun. but around him i shut up i cant talk serioulsy its not like me at all. hes a really funny guy and ima really funny gal and him and my bestfriend get along GREATT and me and her are so alike. but george.. the guy i can never seam to talk to. i had to invite him to this party once and i was nervous but i did it.. i talked so fast i sounded like a fag but i dont know what else to do. cuz i cant even have a chance unless i start talking to him. also my best guy friend.. anthony, says i shoulndt like him and he really hates him what should i do??
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don't worry, that's exactly like me too!! when you're around him, pretend that he's one of your friends that you're funny and wild around. pretend he's just this random old guy, not your crush who you totally gag in front of. think of it this way, it's a lot more embarassing to not be able to talk around him than actually TALK and yet say something embarassing!! talk normally, even talk slow (it's a lot better than fast!) practice talking to yourself in front of the mirror and know what you're going to say. just do that the first times or so, so you can talk to him better. don't chicken out!! and believe in yourself!!! gain confidence!! be DETERMINED..lol yeah. afraid of sweating? don't shake, stand as still as a statue. (just try not to be TOO stiff!). and put deodorant on before you talk to him haha. and a mint too i guess in case ur breath stinks!. lol good luck!!! :)
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