i am going out with this kid and he likes me a lot and ii liek him a lot but he always flirts with other girls .. sometimes right in front of me ! and his best friend lieks me buht he has a girlfriend .. he's planning on dumping her .. and he said he'll go out with me if liek ii liek him and everything .. but im scared to go out with him because im afraid my boyfriend will get mad at him and me :-/ what should ii do
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shortiebebe021 answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 7:31 pm: i'm sorry to say but this is sort of the truth, flirting isn't necessarily "cheating" so you don't have a TRUE reason to break up with your boyfriend. flirting to other girls is really bitchy so you could take that against him. tell him that you're tired of him always flirting to girls in front of you, you're his girlfriend after all!! if he says something like "look i'm allowed to flirt with other girls. just because i flirt doesn't mean i like them as much as you" but still. the other guy seems better than your current boyfriend. you want to break up with your boyfriend (it seems) so you should dump him.
don't go out with his best friend right away though. give it some time. after you break up with your boyfriend, don't date anyone and then after a while *when your boyfriend is probably over you and moving on, and wouldn't care THAT much if you date someone else*, then go out with his best friend. when you're not dating anyone, tell the best friend that you like him but that you want to take a break, and after your break you'll go out with him. hopefully it'll all work out for you! good luck!! :) [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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