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well..ther this kid i reeely like . hes gaven off so many signals that he lieks me more than a friend..i give off the singnals to.. and he hasent done anything about it..ive had a friend tell him i like him .. i feel so uncomfertabel arounf him.. but ther times wher we eing rely stupid like he pushes me against that wall and stands ther for like a minet just stnding ther... and we have gym class together and b.c of him i have SOOO much fun in gym!i dont know what to do. i reeeeely like him.. alot!help!
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Well, not to steal your thunder, but the word "there" has an "E" on it.
You've basically answered your own question. If you feel uncomfortable around him, you don't need to push this. If it's a nervousness that is mostly anticipation and excitement, I can relate (he he..) but if it's an uncomfort as in "you're pushing me too far and too hard", then you need to drop this like you would a hot coal.
If you're just nervous because you're with him, then try and talk to him. The best way to start a relationship is to be friends. If you and he are compatible (get along very well etc.) then you might make a good couple with him. Just start as friends, talk to him as you would a normal friend. Get his AIM screen name (or YIM, MSN etc.) and/or his E-mail address, and talk to him. Get to know him; find out what he is really like. If he's going to push you too hard, pressuring you to do things that you shouldn't (such as sleeping with him, doing drugs, drinking underage etc.) then lose him. That kind of guy is nothing but trouble.
Not all guys are that way, though. I know many respectable young men, and they would be appropriate for respectable Christian girls. One guy, who is my best friend, is ... just a super guy. I love him. (and he knows it, too) But, before I could love him, I had to be friends with him. It's pretty cool; having a guy for a best friend. Considering that my best friend of seven years is a girl, and then a guy comes into my life - boom! Lol. But, that's how I would suggest that it work. It's just alot easier to be honest with each other, to talk about 'personal' things, and to express yourself to the other.
If you're too shy to ask for his contacts (AIM screen name, E-mail address etc.), get a gal-pal to do it for you. Don't scare him away by telling him that you like him as soon as you're talking to him. Get to know him better, know the 'little' things about him. Know about his family, his pets, his fave colors, fave subject, least favorite subject etc. Then, when the time is right, suggest (hint) that you like him, then a little later (a few days) tell him. You'll know when the time is right. If he likes you back, he'll hint as well.
Flirting is optional, and something that you'll do without thinking about it. Don't overdo it or you'll seem interested in only one thing - the physical aspect of the relationship.
Pray about your relationship before you do anything. This is essential - how else will you have His help if you don't ask?
-FunnyCide
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