my best guy friend and i started liking eachother...we have this great relationship but then basically when it comes to like making out with him or anything i get all nervous... i want to do it but i dont want it to be awkward (were not going out as of now) is it ok to have this 'friend with benefits'? and how can i not be so nervous cuz if i really like him i dont want it to be weird when/if we go out
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Daisy answered Sunday May 8 2005, 7:42 am: If you are really good friends and you think you might start go out with him at some point then can you tell him that whatever happens you want to take things slowly? This is the best way to take things especially if you are already good friends. So you say you are nervous, everyone thinks it's only the girl who gets nervous but it's not. He will be feeling just as nervous as you. If I were you I would take things really slowly. The best relationships are ones which build up gradually. Spend time together, go for walks, th the cinema, picnics or whatever - thast way you will get to know achother even better and become so comfortable around eachother that things will come naturally. Once it comes to the point when you are ready to make out it will be nerve-wracking to begin with but as soon as it starts everything will come naturally I promise. I hoped I have helped a little! [ Daisy's advice column | Ask Daisy A Question ]
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