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Question Posted Saturday May 7 2005, 3:48 pm

Ok, so. my first love, he was so amazing and i was in love with him & we broke up due to well me being depressed & not open with him about it.but now, were like best friends & i completely tell him everything & i cry to him when i need to & he cries to me, but my best friend recently told me she liked him (she has a boyfriend) and i like him also. i've never stopped. he has a girlfriend & told me that he likes me, his girlfriend & my best friend. i dunno, should i TRY to move on?

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FrEe2bMe answered Saturday May 7 2005, 11:55 pm:
Well, I'm sorry that you are having to go through all this. First loves are always a hard thing to deal with and get over. It's nice that you and yours have still remained good friends. That's great that the two of you can open up to one another. As for all this mess of he likes her she likes him stuff. I think you totally need to avoid that part. I think it's good that your best friend is honest with you and told you that she liked him. But a TRUE best friend would never go out with one of your exes or someone you still have feelings for. You should make it well known to her that you still like him. As for the guy, I think that what's meant to be will always find a way. I think that you shouldn't totally try to get over him in the sense of cutting him totally out of your life, but you should work on getting over him in the sense of BEING with him as more than a friend. In time, things will work out for the best. Try to learn to not depend on just your ex for what you are going through. Talk to other friends, famlily, counselor, etc. You'll get through it. In the mean time, don't focus on a relationship so much right now, just focus on having a good time! :)

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