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Okay, im so confused and I have to make a real long story short. I dumped this guy Joe before I went on vacation. He really likes me but I dont like him. On vacation i thought i was gonna see this guy I went out with last year on vacation (i'll just call him nl), but he didnt go. So i met this other guy who happens to be his best friend (ill call him ak). Me and ak ended up going out, and someone how i go nl's sn and me and him started catching up on how we had gone out a year ago and how much we had liked each other and all that. I found out he still liked me after a whole year and I was still in love with him. So i dumped ak, and i know it was so slutty, but I just had to. NL dumped his gf for me and we went out for about 4 days, untill he dumped me! He lives about 45 minutes from me so I never really got to see him so thats why.. but i was so upset. We still like each other though but its hard. Now Joe like wants me back and he always tells me how much hes in love with me but I just dont feel for him anymore. And now, this boy I used to like Alex, dumped his gf cause he liked me and now he wants to go out! And I like him too, but i still like nl, and i always will. And just recently my best friends bf dumped her beacuse he liked me too! And ugh i feel so horrible.. I really wish none of these guys liked me beacuse now im so confused and i really dont know what to do. And also ak HATES me for dumping him.. ugh.. please help ! Cause now no matter what I do someones gonna get hurt and people are gonna hate me.. =(
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wow you're like a boy magnet!! 5 guys like you at the same time! you have no idea how many girls wish that would happen to them, the guys like them SO much they dump their girlfriends for you!! okay anyways...
you have to drop joe. he still likes you but you don't like him back. and it never works out if you go out with someone just because of pity, not because of *love*. it won't work and try not to be too hard on the guy, it's hard enough on him already. be friends with him but that's as far as you should go with him for now.
don't go out with nl again. does he go to your school? if he does, then you see him everyday at school so it isn't truly a problem. if he doesn't, that is really tough to go out and i guess breaking up wasn't a bad decision. it's sort of too late to go back together with him, but also it's not exactly going to give you the best reputation (and character) anyway-be known as the girl who dates and dumps the same guys constantly.
do you like ak? if you don't, don't date him. if you do, then you could, but you could make nl mad and plus ak HATES you. that pretty much means he still likes you, or you just totally embarassed him. either way, it's not exactly the best decision to make. whatever it's YOUR choice.
as for the other guys-Alex and your best friend's bf. do you even like them? you could go out with alex if you like him but going out with your best friend's ex is going to be hard on your best friend, especially since he dumped her for you. alex is probably a better choice if you like both guys the exact same.
maybe you shouldn't go out with other guys and take a break since you're obviously stressing out with all this. say it in a nice way to all the guys "i need a break from all of this, it's all too hectic. you guys are all real sweet and all but i seriously need to rest. i'm on a "no dating" period at the moment." and if your best friend totally hates you for her ex dumping her, say that you'll really sorry about it but you never made moves on him at all and that you aren't even going out with him. i hope i helped...sorry this is so long lol! good luck!! :)
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