I like this guy named john. he used to like me alot but he had a girlfreind, he cheated on his girlfreind with me. and now the girl hates me...and we used to be freinds before that. he always flirs with me, and we did shit even though we wernt together. then come to find out john did shit with some other girl, so i asked him about it and he completly lied and said he didnt. so then 2 days later i bitched at him more untill he said that he did lie. he said that it happend " a mad while ago " but i know that was a lie cuz it happend only 3 days before.. so i said, well i thought you liked me a " mad while ago " and he just was like whatever i dont wanna talk about it. so that got me really upset and i was cryin. and i G ot on IM around 1 in the morning, and he was telling me how sorry he was and how he did like me. ever sience that he hasnt been flirting with me at all, so 2 weeks later after hardly speaking he told me he did like someone else. and that killed me. i was so sad.. and i still am. so last night we were talking on IM and he was flirtign with me! ugh. and he still likes that other girl and not me. and it made me feel happy and stuff that we were flirting.. but then we didnt even talk in school. but now he flirts with me, and its so confussing. and even if he dsont like me, i just cant get over him.. i love him. i just cant, i know hes not the one for me and i know taht i can get better but i still want him and only him...HELP
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shortiebebe021 answered Friday May 20 2005, 4:57 pm: seriously, he cheated on you with 2 other girls!! that does not sound very trustworthy...at all. and he lies to you too, with all that "mad while ago" stuff. and he might have lied to you about liking you because the nex day, he didn't even talk to you at all. and he might still be lying to you about not liking you, when he might because he keeps on flirting with you. he doesn't sound like he'd make a very good boyfriend to me at all. i know you love him and can't get over him, but he doesn't deserve to go out with a girl like you. i know, you think i'm a total bitch now and that i don't understand you AT ALL. trust me i do, and even if you did go out with him, he'd most likely cheat on you (or flirt all the time with another girl) like he did before, and you'll end up feeling a lot worse and hurt than you do right now. but boys are immature and they grow up, so you could probably give him a second chance. just keep on flirting with him on AIM and if you've had enough of him, go up and talk to him about WTF he's doing to you. he likes another girl, yet still flirts constantly with you. there's a pretty good chance he might like you. anyways good luck!! :) [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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