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guys and best friends
okay my bestfriend was going out with this guy and of course they were inseperable but neither were us. so the three of us always hung out. so right before spring break he dumped her because he was going on a cruise. of course he just said he didnt like her anymore but when he came back he wasnt very queit about what he really did on that cruise. so my best friend was extremley pissed. but at the same time, from spending so much time with him, i liked talking to him about alot of stuff..i guess we were pretty close. so a month later..last sunday actually he told me that he liked me. all year. even when he was going out with my best friend. out of shock i told him i thought i liked him too. i was obsessed with him all of last year but when they started going out i pretty much got over him. he even told my best friend he liked me. i kept reassuring her that ill tell him i dont like him but i dont know what to do because i dont know if i dont like him. my best friend is my number one best friend but i dont want to screw my friendsship with that guy either. so i dont know if this can makes any sense but any advice will do. im fourteen and im a girl. thanks alot<3333333
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ok you need to decide whether you like the guy or not first. if you do, and you want to go out with him, don't ask him out right away. wait for your friend to cool off from the breakup, and then you could do something about it. if you don't, then you could still remain friends with him. yeah you already told him you liked him but you could always sort of take that back. explain that you still want to be friends, and that you just don't think of him like that (also because your best friend might get real mad, but don't tell him that lol) tell your best friend that even if she won't speak to him, he's still your friend because the three of you were really close before. tell that to the guy too, if he's upset about you being with your best friend.
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