ok..well here i go..im in MAJOR need of some advice..sooooo..here it is..well i met this guy this year and we hit it off really well..i broke up with my boyfriend for him..and he broke up with his girlfriend..(so he told me)..but we made out and did some other stuff..then i find out he never broke up with her..first off..im 14 hes 18...and yeah he was playing me the whole time and my parents told me i could date him and he wanted to date me..but then one night he IM's me on the computer and says he wasnts to be with his girlfriend..not me...so im really sad..and now in school i cant face him..i cry all night..its really hard for me..and whenever i talk to him he is always talking about the good things he does with his girlfriend..and now i dont no how i can get close with anyone else...im afraid of getting hurt again...PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!PLEASE!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? charmed3fanatic answered Thursday May 5 2005, 8:46 pm: okay i have the same problem... your afraid to get close because you ARE right you are too afraid of getting hurt.. actually i think he is trying on purpose to make you jealous... maybe he might be trying to get you to do other things with him instead of the things that you did... and at 18 if you had sex with him it is illegal and he could go to jail for "raping" you even if you did want it.. what you need to tell yourself is that "he isn't worth my tear he is an ***hole.. and i deserve better!" hunny you do deserve better! you deserve to be treated like an angel and like the world revolves around YOU! and you only in his life.. i can't really help you get over being hurt because i myself have the same problem.. what you have to do is wait and find another guy that you adore and try and forget about your ex.if you need any more help just let me know! hope you can get over it!! :-) :-( [ charmed3fanatic's advice column | Ask charmed3fanatic A Question ]
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