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i love my best friend...
hey!! how are you?!?!im thirteen.. and lol im a girl.well heres my problem.. i like this kid.. lets call him bob.. bob is my absolute best friend thats a guy.. and i think i love bob.no i know i do.i have for a long time, since last year.bob is going out with my best freind thats a girl.bob and i are very very close he can tell me ne thing and i can tell him ne thing.. i told him the beginning of this year i liked him, and ive asked him out wenever he was single, no luck with that. but like online and stuff hes always flirting with me and he says ne guy would be happy to have me. he has nothing to offer me, he thinks im beautiful, i deserve better than him and that he loves me.. and all that stuff but i cant like ne one but him, but wen his girlfriend comes around, things like sorta change with him. he sometimes ignors me and everything. he always hugs me and everything, and i just cant help to think that there are other feelings than just his best friend inside him for me. we always get into fights and he always says im in the way.. but i was best friends with both of them before they even knew eachother,come to think of it,I hooked them up(big mistake)i just dont know what to do, i love him so much!ive nevr ever felt this way about a guy before..=/
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i love my best friend
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DEAR I LOVE MY BEST FRIEND,
wow, i cant tell you how many times i've heard something like this before. lol. its a sticky situation but i'll try my best to help.
well its a little weird how he likes you and he's going out with someone else. in my opinion it kinda sounds like that he does like you. and he's putting himself down by saying that you derserve a better guy and hes saying that hes not good enough for you when you think hes the perfect guy. i think maybe when he is currently dating, you should try and give them space. and once he's single again, dont rush into it so fast. ive asked out boys too. and no, thats not weird, if boys can ask out girls, girls should be able to ask out boys. but anyway, yeh i havent had luck either. maybe you should ask one of your friends to help you out or maybe at a party where there is a better chance of him saying yes.
you have to let him know you are serious about you liking him. if you dont, hes just gonna keep thinking that youre too good for him. but also since he is your best friend and if you love him as much as you make it sound - you should want him to be happy; no matter what that means. have you ever seen bruce almighty? where jim carrey loved jennifer aniston but she didnt want to love him anymore? well when he prayed, he didnt pray for her to love hm - he prayed that she would be happy. i know that means maybe never going out with him - but thats what true love is: sacraficing for the one you lovex3..
if you dont like that idea of just letting him be happy. just give him space, time, and tell him honestly but dont sound too desperate bc we dont want that happening :). sry this was so long and it might not have been helpful - but if you have problems just comment back and i'll try to think it over a little more.
hope it works,
HEREtoHELPx3
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