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Can you help?
Ok, can you help me? Every boy that I've liked get takin`! And worst of all.. By cheerleaders. Just because they are cheerleader they get takin`. I'm in Track, currently in a musical, I dance for my school, and I've been riding horses since I was 2 years old. I don't understand why people go out with them. Like some of them are just so boring! Like a lot of them are my friends, but I can't seem to find anyone for me.. one of my friends said that I should wait until highschool.. But I don't want to! I really want someone now. I went out with some that's like 6 foot tall. Well, I'm a "Shortie". I weigh 75 lbs. and 4'10". I'm in the 7th grade, and I'm 13. Anyway, Like 4 days ago I went out with this guy named Cameron. About 6 foot tall. I met him at our musical practice. He sings 2 solos in it. (He's bad!) We went out and I found out i was his first girlfriend. How pethatic!!(sp?) Anyhow, He sat with me the day I decided I wanted to break up with him (By the way, he's in 8th grade). My friend that told me to wait until highschool said when I got up for him to sit by me, when I told her not too. It had me mad. So he was just sitting over there while I was talking to her. And I told her I had to talk to her, and out of nowhere she says, "I feel like he's being completely ignored!" And I gave her a look - and mouthed the words I DON'T LIKE HIM! Anyway, it was time for us to go to our places, and I told her to tell him I break up with him after the bell rings. So he was sad, I guess. But one of my cheerleader friends goes, "I hate you! Don't ever talk to me again! You were his first girlfriend!" She didn't really mean it.. And like everyone came up to me and said, "Ohh you broke up with Cameron?"
Was it wrong of me to do that? I mean, I think it would have been meaner to keep going out with him if I really didn't like him..
What can I do to get guys to like me? I mean, I know guys that like me, but I don't like them back!
*wOnDeRiNg*
P.S. Sorry so long!! Hope you don't mind.. :-D
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oh no, it wasn't wrong of you to do that AT ALL! if you didn't even like him, you shouldn't have had to go out with him just to please everyone else. but i think you should have probably waited a few more days before breaking up though...just because it is his first girlfriend after all (btw it's *pathetic* lol)and you must have meant a lot more to him. a few days actually does make a difference.
and you shouldn't have told your friend to tell him you broke up, you should have broken up with him yourself. mainly because usually when girls have friends to tell the news instead, it means that they want to have NOTHING to do with the guy anymore. they want it so much that they can't even tell them to news instead. i know it's hard to break up with the guy in person, but it would have been better.
sorry it's too late to do all that now. try still being friends with the guy so the rumors might go down a bit. and that cheerleader friend of yours, even though she didn't "mean" it, still sounds pretty bitchy for doing that. get a new friend.
well you could become a cheerleader to get guys to like you (since obviously at your school, guys dig cheerleaders). being a cheerleader isn't that bad, it's pretty fun. but you shouldn't give in to peer pressure, but i don't know, all the guys who you like don't seem to like youu... plus i'd like to point out that that's really such a stereotype. all the athletic hot guy jocks go out with the gorgeous cheerleaders, ugh i hate THAT! my school isn't like that but it must be awful having guys who only like cheerleaders. maybe you could try liking guys who aren't so shallow? sorry...that was mean of me :( ... well good luck in finding the purrfect guy :)!! i'm sure you'll find him !!
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