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ok. heres the deal. im 14 yrs. old and have this 18 yr. old boyfriend. i will be 15 in july . well we started going out 2 weeks ago. i know its not a long time but ive been crushin on this guy for like 2 monthes and he finally asked me out. i was soo happy. so i wanted my parents to meet him so we could go out to places and stuff. so he came over and stayed for an hour or so then we went out. well i lied to my parents saying he was only 17. bc if they found out he was 18 theyd flip out and not let me see him. well my parents found out he was 18 . i dont know how though. they wont tell me. so im not allowed to be with him. he gave me his necklace to wear and my dad took it and has it right now. he's not allowed to call me and i cant call him and i cant chill with him or anything. im not allowed to even chill with him at school either. isnt that crazy!? so anyways my parents hate his guts. they say he's an ass and he's way too old for me but i dont think he is. i really like him. he bought me a white gold diamond heart necklace. i love it! so i dont know what to do. my dad wants him to stay away from me and if he dont then they'll get him arrested for being with a minor. ive tried convincing my parents this past week begging, crying to just let me be with him. they just yelled at me more. my parents think im not a virgin anymore either and that im doing drugs. so they took me to get drug tested. they got the results back yesterday and im clean. :) . so i dont know what to do. help
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WELL i KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, AND YOU JUST HAVE TO FiND A WAY TO SECRETLY BE WiTH HiM, LiKE TELL HiM TO MEET YOU SOMEWHERE THAT YOU MiGHT BE GOiNG WiTH TO WiTH YOUR FRiENDS, LiKE THE MOViES OR SOMEWHERE THAT DOESNT HAVE ALOT OF LiGHT, AND iF YOU CANT EVEN DO THAT YOU MiGHT HAVE TO JUST TRY TO FiND SOMEONE YOUR OWN AGE..iT WOULD BE ALOT LESS STRESSFUL FOR YOU AND YOUR PARENTS
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ok, first of all i'm sorry but he is to old. the law states tat any 18 year old that is with a minor can get arrested. if he touches you like kisses you or something they can count that as rape or assault. so you can get this guy in some serious trouble. secondly, i don't know how but if you truly want to see him then you will have to do your best sneaking. like sneaking out late at night or leave for school early and maybe you could see hm, you have to be extra careful though.
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what your problem is why do you want to date someone 4 years older than you?!!!???!!!
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ok well first off tell them obviously they're wrong about a lot because they were wrong about you doing drugs. Then tell them that they can see the guy cares about you if a. he's risking all this and b. he gave you such an expensive gift.. maybe also mention the fact that they are hypocrits because they liked him when they thought he was 17. tell your parents you want to see him and (be mature) tell them that they need to let you make your own decisions.. you are almost 15.. make sure you talk to them sensibly.. let them find for themselves that you are mature enough to have an 18 year old boyfriend.. hope i helped sweets
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