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hey okay .. there's 3 boys there all friends .. Mike .. Art and John .they all like me .. im good friends with them all and i like art. . but if i go out with art mike and john will be mad at me .. but i tryed to get mike to understand that i dont like him like that .. but he w0nt take no for an answer and i dont know wat to do .. i really like art . but i want mike to accept us being together .. x0o ash please please please help !!!
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You just go out with Art then. The others will just have to get used to the idea...and they will sooner or later. You can't please everyone so don't even try. Just do what you want and don't let what they think influence your decision. :)
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yeah it sucks when this type of stuff happens.. just tell mike that youd rather just stay friends and your not interested in him like that.. then tell art that you like him and you guys will probly end up together if its whats meant to be.. dont worry about it..it will turn out fine <33 good luck babe
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Well, you really have to ask yourself "Is having a relationship with Art worth giving up Mike and Josh as friends?". If your answer is yes, then you should go out with him. If not, then you should probably stay friends. There's no way to make John and Mike accept Art and you being together and you'll have to accept that. You need to tell them that you respect their feelings, but you'd like them to respect yours as well. If they were really your friends, they would be happy that you have found someone to have a relationship with: someone to make you happy in a way that no one else can! This dilemma will come up many times in your life: between friends and boyfriends. You have to deal with these dilemmas as they come. You really have to wonder if your friends are looking out for your best intrest or THEIR best interest. In this case, it sounds like your two friends are being selfish in not wanting you to have a relationship with Art. I say if you really want to be with Art, be with him, and stop caring about what others think. You have to live your life the way you want and disregard what others think or you'll never be happy. I hope I could help! Good luck with your situation!!
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