Ok well... I basically ruined my whole fucking spring break... alright here's what happened. I met this really hot guy but he lives in the city so i dont know that much about him just yet. but we got to know eachother pretty well and we ended up making out like 50 times and did something else too :-x ... but it wasnt sex or anything but pretty close. so after it happened he wasnt really talking to me that much... so I went up to his homeboy and asked him what was up with my man? and so him and his homeboy talked about what was up with me and him... but it was taken to damn long so I just walked up to "my man" and asked him what was up and he told me that he wants to get to know me and go out with me... so i asked him "do u like me?" and he's like yeah of course I do... so that was that until later that night (this all happened at my friends house that I was at and I was there that night too) so me and my friend get a call from this girl saying that my mans homeboy was her man (my friend was going out with my mans homeboy and this was his pregent girl calling from the city) and she is bitching out my friend and then she hung up. then a lil while after we got another call from another girl and now she this girl is telling me that my man is her man and that she is his baby's mama and that I better stay away from him and shit (so we have 2 preganant girls calling us telling us that our men are theirs)... I swear to god right then and there I thought it literally the end of my life.. to hear that he had a girl that was 8 months pregent and he lied to me and everything we had was nothing at all :*-( ... so like 1/2 an hour later she calls back saying how they broke up and she's gonna get an abortion and "my man" denied even knowing me and he was talking madd shit. so just today she calls me telling me that there done for good n shit... then she calls back like an hour later again telling me how they just talked about it and she doesn't know if they're going to get back together now... but doesn't this girl tell me that this is the 2nd time he has cheated on her?! I'm like are you fucking forreal? but i don't know now because I think that I'm still in love with him even after... he lied, denied even knowing me, talked mad shit about me and his pregenant girl that I didn't even know about, him and her might get back together? :-/ I don't know I don't want to love him but I don't know... what if he calls me again or something? what do i say? do i tell him no? or do I tell him how I feel and try to be with him again? I really don't know, please help...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Martini_Kissez answered Saturday April 23 2005, 9:07 pm: Hey,
Wow this is pretty hard. But what i think you should do is tell him how you feel but tell him no because what if he cheats on you and gets you preg and all this stuff yea i dont really think you want that to help him.But tell him you know i like you and all but this isnt write you gotta go help the other girl with the baby because shes your baby to because without you she wouldnt of had that baby. Dont worry about me right now and maybe later on we can get together but i really think that you should help her out. You know just be straight out with him. Sorry if thats not good help but i hope everything works okay good luck!
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