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its gunner again
hey dude, my buddy carl just got suspended from the site. bit of a problem, his friggin brother scott got onto his comp and started doing really horrible things, like writing racist remarks on carl's advice column. hence the suspension. carl's really angry and i am trying to keep him from tearing his little racist scoundrel of a brother limb from limb for that, as well as his antics with carl's screen name on instant messenger which caused his girlfriend to be a little bit on the angry side, the setting of his home-page as a homoerotic domination site was the icing on the cake. is there any way that i/we can post a formal apology and/or apologize directly to the girl that asked the question? this does not sit well with carl. on a lighter note, my previous question to you might have come out a little garbled, uh sorry bout that. so how should i act towards this girl in class? she's acting like nothing bad happened and it is positively infuriating. happy shakespeare's birth/death day dude.
-Gunner J. Hitler
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I would write the admin:
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... and let her know what's shaking. Time to put a password on carl's computer I think.
On to another topic: I read your feedback comment regarding your previous question...
"thanks, i think i wrote the question in a bit of a flawed way though; she wants ME to get a make-over. you're right, its not all about the sex. furthermore, I have very similar standards with women. i didn't put two and two together until today, but get this: She used me to get a ride to the burger joint so she could meet her boyfriend (her parents apparently like high school drop-outs as much as I do) and hang out with him. I had the intention of going after her b/c she is smart, cute as hell, and i like her demeanor. I hate her standards in men. which would a semi-logical human being pick for a successful relationship? a guy with a great personality and sense of humor with an impeccable work ethic, or the high school drop-out construction worker? overall, its my fault for writing the question so screwed up dude, I was angry and already into my fourth shot of moonshine. for that I apologize, thanks for helping out. -hitler"
You are correct in that she used you for the ride. She likes this guy for WHATEVER reason. Could be a good lay, could be he spends all his construction dough on her, could be etc.
Guess what you are going to do about that? Absolutely nothing. What she did to you, is what she is probably doing to him... Using him!
The reason she acts like nothing happened is this: In her mind, nothing happened. She does this to every guy she meets, she might not even realize what she does, but that is HIGHLY unlikely.
It is so normal for her to treat someone like this that it is as normal as breathing. She never would think twice about using you, or anyone else.
If you are, what you say you are in your previous comment, then you should be able to do far better than this one. Remember: your dating pool here is very narrow. My real honest to goodness soulmate was across the country from where I was living at the time. Take a look around.
Also, I understood that she wanted YOU to have a makeover... that was the whole point of my reply. I was pointing out what it would be like if the shoe were on the other foot. If you insisted SHE get a makeover everyone would say you were a steaming pile of excrement... She makes that demand and nobody even seems to notice. Love them double standards. :-(
As to what to say to here in school, you could tell the truth: "I don't like being used as a ride to see your boyfriend." She will probably flip out and say you are jealous or some such.
You could tell her that you have learned that she is a user. A user of firends and family, and you want nothing to do with her. (My vote)
You could try the cold shoulder.
DangerNerd.
P.S. What state are you in? You mention moonshine... ;-)
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