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So confused... There's this girl in my school, who is so mean to me, and some other people in the school. Even though she's a jerk, everyone listens to her and treats her like a queen, even the people she's mean to! She wants me to act the same, but I don't want to follow anyone, especially someone who hates me! She's always taking about my weight and looks, and I don't know how to deal with it. I sometimes ignore her, which doesn't work, and than I try to snap back, which doesn't work either! She's controlling and mean, I have no clue how to deal with it. Also, everyone laughs at her mean comments, even the people who have been treated badly before! Please answer soon.
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Well, you need to stand up for yourself and tell her off. You just need to try harder when you snap back because if you do, this girl will get the point that you don't want to be treated badly. The next time she says something about your weight, tell her to look at herself before she judges others. You need to tell all the people that this girl treats badly that they need to stick up for themselves because nothing is going to change if none of you do something. If you just ignore her and don't say anything and walk away when she says something bad to you, she will stop because she will know that you don't care, when you really do. ]
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