i asked about the talkin to my ex boyfriend .. well have you talked to your ex since then? and how long did it take you to get over him? i really do love him, and i have since the first time i met him 2 years ago ... and ever since we broke up, i have been depressed. Like 2 of his friends asked me out, but i just dont want no body but him. One of his friends liks me now, and i kinda like him, but no where near as much as i do josh. i am so confused!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xoxhayley answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 9:59 pm: Hey, well i talk to my ex probably once a month... its sorta weird though. To tell you the truth, it took forever to get over him. I do still think about him, somtimes i get a tiny bit worried i do too much, and that when we Do talk i get nervous n stuff, but its normall i think. You never get over your first love. Im 15 and we were eachothers first love, i lost my virginity to him (somtimes im not sure if that was a mistake or not) but it defintily made me so attached to him.. :/ Well I told myself that he was bad for me, and i needed to move on, and it took a long time, i was really depressed too. It was probably the hardest thing i've had to do. But in the end, things work out, they always do. I understand about his friends, and that "no1 comparres to Josh" and thats the same exact way i felt. but you have to try to open your mind a little, and heart, but still have josh if you have that mmany feelings for him still. I would talk to josh though, definitly. But also hangout with his friends, and try a little bit. I did that, and after a while i fell in love with Nick (current boyfriend) and its amazing, i love him. But i know exactly how you feel, i seriously thought i was never going to love the same again or anything, but there are other people out there, BELEIVE me.. Anyways, talk to josh! whats holding you back? if you feel this many feelings for him still then you should go at it! For his friend that asked you out, either tell him the truth (which mite help, cuz he could talk to josh-- but not sure) or just say that your not ready for a boyfriend right now, can we be friends for now. but also you shouldnt X out boys because of 1 of them.. even though i did that too, but it can come back to you, try to flirt with others a little. But i understand how strong feelings can be when your in love, so comefront him and be open and honest... I really want to know what happens haha.. :) but goodluck with everything, let me know what happens please, this sounds cute and interesting. Hope i helped again, best of luck babe.. follow your heart [ xoxhayley's advice column | Ask xoxhayley A Question ]
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