well about a month ago over spring break i was at a friends house (a guys) with my 2 friends (girls) we got drunk so bad that i had to call my parents to take us to the hospital. my friend (a girl, lets call her lucy) well lucy was so small (shes like 4'11) she had to get her stomache pumped and if not she would have slipped into a coma.. everyone at our school found out and even the teachers. lucy's grounded until homecoming next year and my other friend (the girl, lets call her stacy) stacy is still grounded until who-knows-when. but my guy friend who's house i was over at (lets call him ben) well me and ben had sex..i had had sex before w. my other boyfriend of one year and im only 14, we never used condoms but i noticed that i havent gotten any bigger.. i mean i only weigh like 110 lbs. and im like 5'1. but i got kicked off the track team, my teachers all hate me, everyone thinks im a slut..but no one really cares. im considered "popular" to a lot of people and im grounded for a long time...i just dont know what to do--where do i start? thanks...umm yeah
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? SweetStarx89 answered Monday April 18 2005, 3:54 pm: Hey. first let the people know that it isn't any of their busniess to care what have happened. if you are truely talented and is a good student then they shouldnt hate you for nothing...if you felt like you were ready for sex then thats you decision and that just because you did doesnt mean that you're a slut. you have to let them know that that was your decision and come on we 14-16 year olds just wanna have fun so why not let us be yah kno? consider talking to your track coach and teachers about this whole situation if you can and see what happenes...but other than that as long as you have your true friends there i dont see what you need to do...it's you life and live life the way you want to and forget about what other say about your actions. i hope i helped. i'm not really good at this. lol Take Care! x3 SweetStar. [ SweetStarx89's advice column | Ask SweetStarx89 A Question ]
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