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sick of being SINGLE~!
heyyyy! I'm the 16 yr old you gave guy advice to before... well ive got a few questions i wish you might help with. Ok so this guy has told me (before we were anything at all) that he doesnt like calling people... he likes them to call him. Lol and thats the EXACT same thing with me.. and i told him that. I told him it's a big deal for me to call someone and that i'm not a fan of it. Well later he said that since we both didnt like calling eachother then we were both going to have to do it and switch it up. Ok so he called me like 4 or 5 times and we talked (it was mostly when we were outta town because of spring break) and then when we got back I got up thr courage to call him to see what he was up to... so i did... but he didnt answer so i left a message. Then a few days later it was the same thing... he didnt answer, but this time i didnt leave a message... i was kinda frustrated since i know he ALWAYS has his cell with him and he knows that when i call its nerveracking... THEN like the next day (i still havent even gotten a call back) he calls and asks what i'm doing because he's like outside my house. OF COURSE I HAD TO BE IN SWEATS AND LOOK TERRIBLE lol but i thought it was kinda cute since i love random surprises like that... we only talked for a little bit because he had to go. I am SOOOOO confused with this boy! I need help!! what is going on?!?!?!?
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I can understand that you are confused, he is definitely sending you mixed signals. One day he won't answer his cellphone, and the next day he shows up on your doorstep. And guys say WE'RE confusing :P
You can give him the benefit of the doubt, since it sounds like it's still relatively early in the relationship. However, if he continues to not answer your phone calls, he could be trying to send you a very discreet signal. Maybe that he likes you, he just doesn't like you enough. But I would also like to say that, not returning your phone calls is not the only warning sign. For example: if you two make plans, and he suddenly cancels or stands you up, he's trying to tell you the same thing.
I would like to take this opportunity to recommend the book, "He's Just Not That Into You," By Greg Brehendt and Liz Tuccillo. Hopefully you won't need it to figure out whether or not this guy is "into you," but I suggest that every dating female read it. It will take a lot of the confusion out of your interactions with the opposite sex, and you'll be able to save your brain from the dreaded disease that is over-analyzing.
Let me know if you have any more questions. Best of luck...Adieu ;)
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