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I'm the one u said sounded desperate.. no actually im not easy- im far form it. ive had many chances that i turned down just cuz it wasnt right. But I really think i fell in love with his guy whether he loves me back or not. I wish he did and id do anything for that second chance. But he knows how i feel about him and hes told friends he likes me too and everything and he knows that im not easy or anything like that and told his best friend he wouldnt have sex with someone he didnt have feelings for or care about. So i dont know what to do because im spendin time with him my friend and her crush which is his best friend this weekend and if it ever happens thats probably when, i just need opinions to help me decide and everything.
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Well, the sensation you feel right now might seem like love but it could be infatuation or 'puppy love'. Infatuation CAN become true love but it needs to be tested. Love hurts... A LOT. It means going through emotional roller coasters and pain that can only be found in a truly loving relationship. I think one of the reasons for a lot of divorces nowadays is that people are in love with the idea of 'being in love' and not actually 'being in love'. It's a slight difference. They love the idea that this one person will be there for them always and forever... until one day, they decide that they can't handle dealing with paying the bills and dropping the kids off to school and break up. Love is like tempered sword. It requires going through Hell and back. Love means being there for him when his dad dies of a sickness and he wants to lash out at the world - including you - and still care for him when he insults you and calls you bad names even though you know it's just the pain and suffering talking. Love means supporting him in the stupidest ideas no matter how absurd you think they are. And it works both ways. Is he willing to do anything for you? Love is not easy. If he cannot love you back then your love is hopeless because he will not return your feelings (even if you sleep with each other. Ask yourself, 'do I really love this person and want to be with him always?' If you can answer that, to yourself, WITHOUT hesitation, despite all the trouble it may bring, then yes you may be in love. But ask him that question as well. If he looks away from you to think about it for even a split second, you can be sure that he isn't ready for love yet... but he'll sleep with you anyway.
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