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Question Posted Friday March 25 2005, 1:18 pm

My name is Amy Bussel and I am 21 years old. My fiance and I have seperated because I cuss to much at him, this is not the first time that htis has happened but everyone he has returned to me. When he leaves like this it is usually for a few days, and he don't call of nothing. I have never done anyhting to hurt him and have always gone out of my way to try to make sure that he is happy. Can you tell me if you believe that he will come back home to me or not? Csn you also tell me what I need to do to make sure that this never happens again, Also I would like to know what I should do till he comes home or not?

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Mackenzie answered Friday April 8 2005, 3:02 pm:
I'm a fiRm believeR in not changing foR ANYONE! I don't believe that an individual should feel pRessuRed oR foRce to change who THEY aRe to please anotheR. It's tRue that "Real" family and fRiends should accept you foR who you aRe, howeveR; if you notice that you aRe offending way too many people, peRhaps you have a Real pRoblem. I know cuRsing can be an addiction, so to speak, but just be a little moRe concsious about the things you say. If you feel an aRguement coming on with youR fiancee, tRy walking away fRom it until you've cooled off some. CuRsing is a way to expRess some angeR, but it's neveR the most appRopRiate way. Just know that youR fiancee is a human being too... one that deseRves the same love and Respect that he shows you. Don't let youRself lose fRiends and family oveR youR vocabulaRy.... it's Really not woRth it. And I couldn't Really tell you if he will come back oR not... I can't pRedict the futuRe, I'm soRRie to say. I can tell you to think positively, and hope foR the best. Yet, if he chooses not to RetuRn to you, than that's his decision. You should Respect and undeRstand wheRe he is coming fRom. Honestly, put youRself in HIS shoes. Can you blame him? Also, make shoRe to talk to him about this. TheRe must be a betteR way foR the two of you to expRess youR feelings towaRds one anotheR. I wish you the veRy best of luck. I Really do hope I helped. Let me know how it tuRned out. Thanks foR the question, and know that I am always heRe if you need me. =D

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