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Im not sure if you got my last ???
But in case you didnt here goes. When I said that Ive hurt him, I dont mean any specific act, but he thinks that the way I am I am hurting him. Ive appoligized over and over, but He has hurt me before and he does not see it just the things that I do wrong. Youve given me great advice but WHAt DO I REALLY DO????? I want him to know that I dont want to fight or argue or hurt EACH OTHER?
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The only thing that I can reiterate over and over again is that you have to talk to him. There is nothing that you can really do by yourself that will make your marriage get better. Your husband sounds very selfish, and is only taking his feelings into accountability, and that is wrong. In the end, you are placing most, if not all, of your marital problems on yourself. If he doesn't want to change and talk to you, then your marriage will never work out. Talk to him. Find out why he acts the way he does. You shouldn't have to keep your feelings bottled up on the inside. Let him know how he makes you feel and how you see your marriage. Talk, talk, talk, talk, talk. That is all you can do. Stop putting all of the blame on yourself though. You did not make him selfish. You did not make him talk to you the way you did. You did not make him hard headed. You did not make him say awful things to you. He has recognize his faults and take responsibilty for him, and that is something you cannot make him do. If he can't talk to you like and adult, then you should re-evalute you relationship with him.
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