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Well If we need counseling how do I tell him that? Ive told him that I would be willing to do this but he thinks he does not need counceling that its all me?
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Hm if he thinks its all you..thats a problem...the truth is..it isnt all you. Try getting him to go just by saying "i would really like to try this because i think it would really help our marriage. please just give it a try..thats all i ask" then take it from there..if he still says no..i believe you can go alone to marriage counseling..but its much more effective with both spouses there. Tell him its not conseling for him..its for the BOTH of you working together as a couple. If hes not willing..it makes it so tough to work on a marriage to improve it if hes not willing to try also. I really hope he listens to you though..
-melissa- ]
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