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Question Posted Wednesday March 23 2005, 8:57 am

Dear Linda,
My bf said he likes me still but he gets all hyper when hes near this other girl!How can i tell if he still likes me?


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LindasCounsel answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 2:09 pm:
Hi!
Okay, you said he has already told you that he still likes you, however, he is acting strangely around another girl. I don't think there is a question of whether or not he still likes you. The question might be whether or not he likes someone else....also.
This may be the dilemma. Your boyfriend probably does like you very much still, however, he may be having some feelings for this other girl. Here is what NOT to do. Do NOT get upset about this in front of him. You do not want to appear as if you are the slightest bit concerned with this. Because if you do, he will think about it more and you will be pushing him towards her and away from you. What you need to do is acknowledge to yourself that this is perfectly normal. We will all be attracted to many different people in our lifetimes. And more often than not, we don't act on those attractions, we simply acknowledge it and move on. Please let your boyfriend do this. I am sure you are attracted to other people besides your boyfriend occasionally, but you don't act on it because you love him. Do not be hard on him for acting differently with this girl, however, you may want to keep the two separated. Good luck!
Linda

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