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ok so, meagan. i have this bf and like we've been together for a while and he's only told me once how he gets really pissed when i "flirt" with other guys, and this was in the begining of our relationship. and now his friends tell me that he gets jealous really easily by like the simpliest things, even when i talk to other guys. so i was wondering, y doesn't he say something? should i say something? and i feel really bad cuz he doesn't say anything about it. cuz me and him should b able to talk about stuff like that.help me meagan!
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I totally see where you are coming from. But I also see where he is coming from. Once should be enough! I'm sure he doesn't want to keep reminding you of how jealous he gets and how often you flirt. Try to work on your flirtatiousness, but you don't have to talk to him about it. He probably doesn't want to bring it up, because it either makes him feel bad or he doesn't like pestering you. If his friends tell you about his complaints, tell them you are trying to stop and that if your bf gets upset he should tell you- not his friends. You are right- you should be able to talk. His jealousy is normal so don't get upset by it or anything- just try to not flirt so much, which shouldn't be too hard if you REALLY try. Hope I helped!
~Meags
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