Okay, I dont want to sound conceited... cause i'm not. But as people that know me say..."Guys are in line for you.", it gets kind of old because i dont usually have a boyfriend because i'm just a "pretty person" that people like to look at. This bothers me cause nobody knows my personality except for my gurlies and a few of my best guy friends. I have a boyfriend now but i'm not sure i like it, i'm so used to being able to flirt with everyone , and not have to stick with jst him. Lemme know what I should do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LindasCounsel answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 12:42 am: Dear abillionguys,
You don't sound conceited at all. You sound mature. It sounds as if you may have felt pressured to have a boyfriend. But what really matters in this equation is how YOU feel. There is absolutely nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend and flirting. If it works for you and you are comfortable with that, then that's it. As far as nobody knowing your personality, I think people do see your personality, because guys do not stand in line for someone who is pretty but has a horrible personality.
You don't say much about your boyfriend so I'm not getting a really good feel for how much you like him. If you really like him, give it a try! But you may want to communicate with him a little more. Telling him you want to break up because you want to flirt might really hurt him. However, telling him that you aren't entirely used to, or comfortable with, the idea of having a boyfriend, (which is the honest truth) will get you guys to open up a little with each other.
Good luck!
Linda [ LindasCounsel's advice column | Ask LindasCounsel A Question ]
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