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Hey, im the girl that asked you if i could replace this guys X-GF (of almost 8 years..)
first of all i just wanted to say thanx,..thank you so very much. Your advice was great and really did help,I talked to him =) The thing is he's far away from getting over her. And I understand that, but he keeps on talking about her and the special moments they've had..and its just so *sigh* sweet and amazing. we'll never have what they had =( it's not possible..I'm not gonna get over him, I've tried for so many years (ive tried getting new love interest, writing a list with his bad qualities..everything!!) so my question is..what should I do? i've given up on replacing her adn on getting over him, so what is left for me to do :S just obsess and dream about him forever? Thanx again for your advice, it means alot that you take time for my small problems when ppl write to you about huge problems like being pregnant. (K)
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Hey, thank you. So you talked to him? Thats very brave of you, and it probably will take a very long time before he can get over her, so what you can do is either just wait and still talk to him, and try asking him if he thinks he will ever date again, which sounds like rushing him, but you should probably still just talk to him until he stops talking about her. But, the problem with that is, like you said, its going to be a long time until he gets over her, and you'll be talking to him, but you'll also probably be living the pain of him not feeling the same way, so, you're going to have to wait, or keep trying to get over him. Getting over someone is just hard, but getting over someone you have crushed on for years is even harder, and feels impossible. But I am here to say that it is, and which ever choice you decide to make, I will always try to help you through it. Now, in my honest opinion, I feel like you need to do both, you should try to lower the love you have secretly given to him so it won't be as painful for you to wait, and a really good way to do this is keeping occupied with yourself by helping yourself. Maybe all of this worrying and stress about this guy is tensing your whole body, and you need something for yourself, like a hot bath, exercise, maybe you need some new clothes, I am suggesting in the meantime, that you focus on yourself, and not this guy, give yourself a break, and just relax and try not to think about what you'll say to him, just let what happens happen, right now, you need to keep focus on yourself, and yourself only. Thank you for asking, and don't worry, I hardley get any questions in my inbox, so, your not bothering me at all. Thank you.
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