I've been wondering for some time: why do you feel like you're in love, when you have a guy you've been with for a while, but when you find out he's been cheating or doing wrong, you lose everything for him, including what was supposed to be love?
I thought when you're in love you can't get over that special someone that quickly.
I was convinced I was in love with this guy, because I had never felt that way about any other guy. But when I found out he was cheating on me, I just got over him in one day, and it's just like I never had feelings for him before. It's like we never went out, and he's another guy in the crowd. Can you help explain this?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lildiamyn_69 answered Monday March 14 2005, 5:10 pm: Female's feelings work in mysterious ways. I have developed a theory for this: Your mind and heart, that holds the chamber for your feelings for people, sweep your feelings for a guy that's done you wrong under the rug, not to be seen for a while. Sometimes they stay forever, and sometimes they work their way back to the surface, and you start to miss him and everything.
So it may be your soul trying to protect you from suffering with missing this guy.
This has happened to me before, and I pretty sure you should be thankful that you love yourself enough for your soul to try to shelter you from the pain=P
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