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Did I do wrong?


Question Posted Monday March 14 2005, 4:00 am

Ok im a 19 year guy and the other night i ened up sleeping with one of my exs good friends. I am single so i know its not cheating but heres the catch me and my ex have been talking about getting back together. Now in my eyes i didnt do anything wrong but now that i look back at it i feel bad.. Did i let the wrong head do the thinking? Please let me know what you think. Thank you.

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SAMzasis answered Monday March 14 2005, 4:12 am:
Um... well, I'd love to give you an advice, but here are few questions from me to you....

"Did i let the wrong head do the thinking?"

Like.... what do you mean by this? You speak like you have two heads, which I'm sure you don't.... are you saying like the bad side and the good side, type thing?

Okay, so ignoring your grammatical mistakes, here's what I honestly think.

Yes, you have done something wrong. HOWEVER, if this "Action" was done BEFORE you and your ex spoke about getting back together, it's fine. Forget about it. If not, You're dead. Also, if she's your ex, she's your ex. There must have been a reason why she's your ex. Whether it's you or her. If you were dumping her, then why are you getting back with her. You know what her problem is. If she dumped you... SHE DUMPED YOU. She either has something up her sleeves, or she saw one good quality of you, that she missed, last time she saw you, and she wants to get back with you. Don't get her to crawl up on you. Forget about it. She's your ex. You two shouldn't be together, unless you're 100% sure about this. But back to your original adivce... PLEASE do not sleep with anyone else, if you were to get back with your ex. I can't amphasizhe enough how many dumb people would just simply "cheat" on their boyfriends or girlfriends... it's just... what are you guys thinking???Hope I helped in some way

~SAM

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