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Question Posted Tuesday March 8 2005, 12:10 pm

Well, back in November, my boyfriend and I broke up, the night before Thanksgiving . He had broken my heart once before at Homecoming night, but I forgave him. Well, the other day, I gave him a hug, and I realized that I missed him. But the only thing is that he has a girlfriend now. He is 14 almost 15 and I'm 17 almost 18, but to me age doesn't matter. Well, then out og nowhere, I started talking to best friends brother, who is 15 or 16, but from what I know, he hates my guts. I don't know a lot about that situation but his brother and him hate each other and anyone who is friends with his brother, he hates, which I am his brothers best friend. Then, I ran into my other ex the other day and we exchanged numbers. We talked last night and come to find out that what I had assumed came true. He asked me when we were going to get back together. Last time we went out, he "said" that his father was making him break up with me because I was too young for him. He was 18 and I was around 14 or 15. What should I do?

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sparta answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 3:51 am:
Hey, no worries. This right now might seem to be real tuff to deal with, but it doesn't have to be. First of all, don't worry about that guy that broke your heart. He's old potatoes! Anyone that has ever had their feelings hurt by someone usually still has some feelings toward that person after the relationship is over. A lot of times thats because people feel like they somehow caused the problem. Just don't hang around that guy, he will probly do the same thing to his new grlfrnd. As for this other guy. Get rid of him to! Who wants to be involved with someone who only listens to their father, and doesn't even think of the way you might feel? And as far as his age, his dad is right! If you care about him, don't let him go to jail for you! It sounds like a no win situation, but its not. Find someone who is close in age to you, who won't break your heart or stop seeing you because they're parents don't want them to get in trouble. Good Luck!

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