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my boyrfiend and i have been together for two years we are both 17 and he is in the army well i oct. of this year he was suppose to be deployed to baghdad for a year and a half, which ruined our plans of going to college together so i planned on staying home and going to a schoo near by till he got back well turns out he actaully wont be going, but know he has this mindset of not going to college at all, which i think is pretty stupid. He said that when he turns 18 this fire department has some kind of job waiting for him. he said he would be making 40k a year and insists that he doesnt HAVE to go to college at all. He hasnt really made up his mind which I think is unfair to me b/c what he does effects me and i am again finding myself putting my life on hold for him...we grad. in May and im not committed to anything school wise which really scares me Im so lost and dont know what to do getting someone else point of view would be awesome thanks....
Andrea
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i think you should put him on hold. its your life not his and if hes going to screw up your life then hes not worth it. sry if it sounds mean but im just giving you my opinion. i think you should go to skool and really set your mind on it. skool is important and you might not have that opportunity again if you loose this one. i dont no if your smart....im guessing you are...if you go to skool then you could get an awsome job that DOES pay more then 40k. and are you sure that your bf will be getting 40k? i mean after you take out all of the taxes and all it might not be that much. hope you make the right choice. hope i helped!!!!
good luck!!!
~nat~
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