thank you once again, (im the chic with a child having an affair with a maaried man - wants to control me)
but like at work, i got access to the telephone and am very tempeted to pick up the dial and call him this is because i dont really have much work on hand so i spend time thinkin and all i dont how if il be able to handle this to let go of him ve said to him on many occassions i dont think its working but we end up together again before the week goes by..
I don't really know much about this, but there are many books on the subject.
"Facing Codependence: What It Is, Where It Comes From, How It Sabotages Our Lives" by Pia Mellody, Andrea Wells Miller, Keith Miller is just one, try searching on amazon.com
Also, there is "The Single Mother's Survival Guide" by Patrice Karst
"Independent Women: Creating Our Lives, Living Our Visions" by Debra Sands Miller might be good.
Those might be good, but these ones, I think, will be awesome.
"Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve"
by Ian Kerner
"He Loved Me, He Loves Me Not: A Guide to Fudge, Fury, Free Time, and Life Beyond the Breakup"
by Lynn Harris, Chris Kalb
"He's Not All That! : How to Attract the Good Guys"
by Dr. Gilda Carle
I'm sorry, but all I can do is reccommend books. I might not be the best person to help you with this, so I do my best by telling you about people who can. This will take a lot of time and a lot of strength. I wish you the best of luck and hope it works out for you and your child.
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