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Question Posted Tuesday March 1 2005, 8:26 pm

hey tara!

thank you so much for answering my other two questions (not the latest one, but the ones before that). i dont really know you, but you're so sweet! i wish i had a friend like you! :)

but you asked me what i meant by my choice in guys being bad. i don't really wanna say too much, just like...i had a tendency a while ago for being unstable like, mentally. not like crazy crazy, but just not stable. idk, i've gotten to the point where i can hate myself or love myself--and most of the guys that i pick out...i pick out of a need to be loved to be hated. like. i dont know how to explain it without sounding REALLY crazy. just abusive relationships.

like i don't really want to trust my own judgment for a while.

so, i don't know. i see what you mean. i know what you mean. don't flirt with guys. but no one will like me if i don't FLIRT, if i dont ACT in some way. guys or girls--i dont flirt with girls, but i'm more used to hanging out with them, you know?


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XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 8:48 pm:
no no. i didnt day dont flirt with guys. i just meant not to flirt with THAT one. and actually, it would be cool if you tried NOT flirting. because then a guy will see the real you. a good friend of mine (a guy friend) said that most guys dont like girls who are all over them and flirting. they like a real girl who isnt afraid to show her personality. if you can do that, and just be yourself, you'll attract so many guys. the RIGHT kind of guy for you.

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