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i'm the same person that wrote the last question
but i guess what i'm trying to say is, she asked this guy out to a big dance and he said yes--and then went with another girl instead. we've told her that he's not worth her time, but she STILL likes him. i don't like him as a boyfriend, but i do want another friend. i'm sick of laying all of my shit on the same two or three people. i need to either expand my horizons or keep everything to myself. i know that it's never ok to like the same guy as your "best friend," but a guy shouldn't ruin a relationship that strong if you have one. just because she met someone first doesnt mean that he can't like me more. plus, if left alone, i would have such horrible taste in guys. at least this way, i know i can get some friends. right?
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ok so this guy is pretty low. your best friend def doesnt need him. but then again, neither do you. of COURSE you can have him as a new friend! making new friends is great! but do you flirt with girls when you make new girl friends? no i didnt think so. so why would you flirt with him? its always good to have people you can trust your problems with. i would go for expanding your horizens a bit. make some new friends! hang out with a new group! its so much fun. and no one can keep everything to themselves.. thats depressing.
but i don't agree with your logic on having friends. what do u mean if you were left alone, you would have horrible taste in guys? do u always go with what your friends say? because if thats the case you need to learn a lesson. be yourself. you dont have to go with what other people think. ]
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