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it hurts so bad
hia you have a good rating plse help me.i had sex with my boyfriend on thurs it was the first time with him.im in so much pain down there i can hardly walk and going to the toilet is so painfull.is this a sti?i dont wna go to the docs then my mum would know what shall i do willl it settle down?it wasnt my first time and im 16 xx
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Keep in mind that I'm not a doctor, and not qualified to give real medical advice.
It's probably not a sti because most of them have incubation periods, but it's always a good idea to get checked regularly once you start having sex.
I'm guessing that you and your boyfriend were a bit over-enthusiastic and you ended up with a tear in or near your vagina - similar to those that women get when they give birth. And/or a strained muscle or two. If it's not bleeding now (even if it bled a little at first), I wouldn't worry about going to the doctor immediately. If it is still bleeding, you should go to the doctor (since this was over 24 hours ago). If it still hurts to go to the bathroom in a week, you should see a doctor.
In the future, make sure you are very turned on before he enters you, and/or use lube. You can and should be dripping. Take penetration slowly, especially at first. Don't have sex again for a week until after you can go to the bathroom without pain. Make sure your boyfriend knows that you guys need to be more careful so you don't get hurt again.
The only thing I can suggest for helping it heal is a warm bath (no bubbles, salts will sting and probably have additives that may irritate you, adding a little mineral oil and/or tea tree oil might sting but should be ok) and, of course, painkillers. I've had little tears before (a few drops of blood is all) and they were healed up within 3 days. It was still a little sore if I tried to spread my legs to far, or masturbate, for a few days after that, but within a week I was back to normal.
If your not ok in a week, you really should see a doctor, just to make sure.
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