|
my bestfriend (girl) is driving my crazy. we have been tight for 3 years and i love her but she is always not happy about something. i would not say she is truely depressed, but she HATES everything and everybody, but me. if she had something major bad in her life i would understand but she doesn't. my mom says you make your own happiness and being negative is just a bad habit and you can change your attitude. how can i help her (and help me as i want to keep her friendship)? her negetive outlook sucks the fun out of everyday things. girl/15
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Families?
well first of all, have u even tried talking to her? do u know everything that is going on with her? because it doesnt have to be anything MAJORLY bad going on with her.. like for example, it could be little things that happen.. even the smallest things can upset people. but even if its nothing major, why dont u even try to help her or talk to her? i mean uve already realized something wrong, or that she isnt happy.. so u should try to make her happy.. and even if its nothing major u should try to understand.. and not just wait until something major does happen.. or until she has some sort of mental breakdown or commits suicide, not saying she would, i dont know her.. but you still never know.. well i have a friend who had a friend that who commited suicide.. and she didnt see it coming.. so you cant just wait to help her, so im glad that your trying to find out though.. but.. being negative isnt just some bad habit, i mean did u think about that maybe things have happened to her, or little things keep on happening that she TRiES to be happy? but maybe it might be hard.. and u dont have to be mean though about how u think her negative outlook sucks the fun out of everyday things? why cant u just try to help her and BE A FRIEND and dont be bitchy to her or anything about how u dont like her negative outlook.. try talking to her and seeing whats going on with her. maybe u dont know whats going on with her. u cant just say things like that and be mean in a way like it sucks the fun out. instead, u should try to help her and just talk with her. if u dont want this to keep happening, then just be a friend to her and talk to her about everything, do this on a daily basis, u dont want her to keep this all to herself and then suddenly have some sort of breakdown and freak out or anything..
]
More Questions: |