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im in love, and have been in love with this one guys for almost a year now...we started going out last march, and we broke up in august because he started liking other people, or losing interest in me.. we didnt talk for two months, and then outta no where he pops back into my life saying he loves me still and hes never had feelings for anyone like this before...ive heard this so many times and everything, and im tired of believing in him and getting broke down...we've still been seeing each other, not officially, like 'friends with benefits' because my mom really doesnt like him at all... he says that he loves me, but that he doesnt go out wiht me because he doesnt liek commitment ( but beforehand he was trying to hook up with a girl from somewhere commitedly while we werent talking )...now i feel hes just using me, and only saying the things hes saying to make me happy, to keep me holding on because he knows how i feel..
..i love him and its so hard for me to move on, to love someone else...and i really cant picture my life without my babe... even though i never knew if he really loved me...
...theres a feeling inside me that i got with him, thqt i just dont get anymore, because i dont have him, id ont know what i have with him anymore...i miss it, and i miss him...
my question is though, what do i do?
what would you do?
~thank you
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Aw sweetie..theres an saying "its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all." I would tell him that your feeling like your being used and your either going to go out..or go your seperate ways. If he doesnt want commitment..and there was a girl he was interested in before...he could be fooling around with her too. Ask him to tell you the truth of why he doesnt want commitment and if hes seeing that other girl.
I would hold onto all the good memories and try to move on. The relationship lost its spark..and it sounds like all hes into right now is using you for benefits. Its not right for you to be loving him while all he wants is to get some. If he loves you now..he wouldnt just be friends with benefits. its so hard and i've had to move on from a deep relationship too..but you can do it! It will take time..but its all part of growing up. You'll be stronger in the end.
Hold onto the good memories..and remember "its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all." You loved and lost..but at least you loved. Many people dont get to experience the feeling of love at our age.
I know its hard to picture him with another girl..but it will get easier. Eventually your going to meet a better guy trust me.
I hope i helped ..please, if there is anything else i can do..you know what to do..drop me another question.
-melissa-
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